Y'all, 2015 flew. I'm going to go ahead and say that 2015 was the quickest year ever. For me.
Where did it go? What did I do in 2015?
It really went that fast for me.
I don't feel like rehashing the past year. It wasn't bad by any means...lots and lots of wonderful things happened which I am excited and grateful for.
But I'm ready to head into 2016.
And by heading into 2016, I have a small list of things that I want to focus on for the new year.
No, these aren't resolutions per say.....I won't sweat if these things aren't accomplished...
But I like having goals, so I made a list of some for 2016 on a napkin today
while eating lunch at Freebirds.
because nothing makes me think more clearer than chips and salsa
Here are my 2016 goals:
in no particular order
1. If we are seated as a family for a meal (whether it be a restaurant or our kitchen table), there will be no technology at all. I don't want to see anyone's phone during a meal, not even mine.
(we do enforce this rule quite a bit, but not enough)
2. Make my car's cleanliness a priority. I've always kept a clean home. My mood completely depends on whether the house is clean. which isn't a bad thing Therefore, I make up my bed daily, vacuum often, I make sure kitchen counters are free of any 'junk', etc...
But my car, folks, is a trash can on wheels. Always has been. I'm pretty sure I have this as a goal every year. Maybe finally this year it'll click with me.
3. One word....Church.
We have a church. An amazing church. We attend. But not enough.
It's not about a number, I know that. But we will attend regularly for 4-6 weeks, then bam...we don't attend for 2-3 months. I can give you every excuse in the book. Some are legit (we are gone for dance competitions) and some are not (Brent's on call, let's just not go)
This is a priority for me and the family. And I'll admit that I'm embarrassed this had to be listed on my Freebirds napkin.
4. Gather with friends around the table. This has been discussed and January is booked. Brent and I want to share a meal around the table with friends at least once a month. We want to cook the meal, pick the wine, sit around the table, and fellowship with friends. Friends we know, yet want to get to know better, old friends whom we love, yet rarely see anymore, work friends, neighborhood friends, church friends, etc. We love one on one time with other couples and we prefer that over larger group gatherings. Our goal is to dig deep, develop stronger friendships, nourish those friendships that are already strong, learn new things, and share new things. For us, this happens best over a meal around the table. We already have two dates in January where we have invited another couple over for a home cooked meal. So this goal is off to a great start.
5. Quit snacking. I'm a chronic snacker. I'll nibble on stuff all day long and when meal time comes, I'm not hungry. Gotta work on this.
6. Bake and share. It's no surprise I love to bake. Baking is like therapy to me. I used to be so good about baking and taking it straight to a friends front door as a sweet surprise. Lately, I just want to bake it, keep it, and snack on it. No bueno, folks. My hips don't lie. Time to get back to sharing the sweet treats with others, instead of keeping it for myself.
that counts as a random act of kindness, right
7. Brent and I both want to incorporate one-on-one dates with each girl. Schedule it once a month and be consistent Maybe in January, Brent will take Ashlan for an ice cream, and I'll take Kate for a coffee....then another day that month, I'll take Ashlan for a dinner and Brent will take Kate for a dinner. Whatever it ends up being, we think each girl needs one-on-one time with Brent alone, and they each need a time with me alone. Each month.
There you have it. My short list of 7 goals we/I want to focus on in 2016.
All listed on my Freebirds napkin. All very important.
I'm excited about 2016.
7. Brent and I both want to incorporate one-on-one dates with each girl. Schedule it once a month and be consistent Maybe in January, Brent will take Ashlan for an ice cream, and I'll take Kate for a coffee....then another day that month, I'll take Ashlan for a dinner and Brent will take Kate for a dinner. Whatever it ends up being, we think each girl needs one-on-one time with Brent alone, and they each need a time with me alone. Each month.
There you have it. My short list of 7 goals we/I want to focus on in 2016.
All listed on my Freebirds napkin. All very important.
I'm excited about 2016.


























